~Think 10 seconds would be all the "Hug" your child could comfortably handle from you?
~Think that your child would feel your hug was something they would have to learn to "handle"?
~Hear someone yell the phrase, "I hate you and everything is your fault" at you?
~Wonder how long it would be until your child would realize that if he wants to really hurt you all he has to do is break something expensive like your glasses or your iphone?
~Imagine that your child would be able to throw a fit for a solid 45 minutes?
~Think you could hold your child for all 45 minutes of that tantrum.?
~Know that one child could control so much of your life?
~Think that you could want so desperately for someone to love you back?